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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So many lady posts on here about how the relationship is about SO much more than just sex.

So here's a post from a middle-aged man: a few times a week or it's over. I don't go around saying that, and don't need to. We've talked about it. She knows where I stand. She has her own list of things that's important. I have my list and it's very short, but nonnegotiable.

It would be her decision at this point. I'm not talking about health problems. If she was in radiation therapy or chemo and couldn't, I would be a perfect gentleman about that, be by her side till the end.

I'm talking willingness, not necessarily ability.[/quote]

What are you doing consistently to be someone she wants to have sex with multiple times a week?[/quote]

I'm the PP: She is a SAHM (her choice) and also has a small home business, which I support 100%. She is a very hard worker. For my part: I make 99.5% of the money (however I do think her business will grow), take care of all house maintenance and car maintenance, cook several meals per week, do a lot of the sports and activities practice shuffling for our 5 kids, give lots of foot and head rubs, and also stay very fit. She's a gym rat, too. Also, I'm not an @$$shole. If this sounds like a very full week, it is.

There are things that would compete for time that I don't do, and she said she is hugely appreciative of this. I don't play video games. I don't watch sports (except during baseball playoffs to bond with my son). I don't watch TV generally except with her. I rarely drink. I don't play golf. I don't "hang out" with the guys like I'm 19.

Basically, I try to put her at the gravitational center of my life and I expect that she puts out in return. Fair play I think. She's happy too.[/quote]
^Also forgot to add (just saw another poster alluded to this): I always make sure she comes first. ALWAYS.
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