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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What will happen with child custody this summer with our 2 young kids (7 and 4)?

DH has not filed yet. We are both finding attorneys. [b]He plans to move out of state and wants to take them with him for a long period this summer.[/b] Sounds crazy to me and not good for our kids.

What will happen and what do I need to do?

(Yes, I am finding an attorney and googling around, but if anyone has experience with this I’d appreciate your feedback. Thanks.)[/quote]

Nope.

Not allowed. Unclear why he would do that so abruptly to such young children. Take them away from the other parent for “a long period of time”?

That’s not how kicking off a separation or divorce works.

Tell him that (a) HE needs to file, then (b) you both will work out temp/separation custody plans and temp child support, until you mediate everything else.
Until that happens the young children stay in their current home and do their current day cares, camps, routine, sports and short already planned vacations.

Also once HE files, someone also needs to freeze the assets (all bank and trading accounts) and then they get split in half during separation. They may get further divied up later. [/quote]

You can't make him file and it's not just up to you that any of that happens. The way you get that is by filing yourself. [/quote]

No kids solo long vacation unless he files and you work out temp custody for the year.

It’s that simple.

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She can't force him to file, and she can't prevent him from taking the kids without an order.  So, she needs to file.

Right now, OP's STBX can legally take the kids anywhere in the US, and keep them there until OP files to get them back.  [/quote]

You meant to say: "Right now the children's father can legally take the kids anywhere in the U.S."[/quote]

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