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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you sound extremely rigid and speak about your daughter with such distain I can see why posters think you hate her.

If she's stealing from you she's likely desperate. I[b]f this is the hill you want to die on - are you prepared for your daughter to end up homeless?  Because calling her names and berating her choices at every turn, isn't going to get you want you want here.[/b] If you want to continue having a relationship with her, you can only control you and you need to do better.

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It's ridiculous and a classic example of black-and-white thinking to insinuate that my daughter will end up homeless just because DH and I have the audacity as parents to point out her immaturity, lack of responsibility, and her current unemployed status that's leading her to steal money from us. [/quote].

Nope. I’m asking you where your line in the sand is. If your daughter is unemployed, and stealing from you, it is not a stretch to consider she is running out of funds. You have stated repeatedly you’re not going to give her any money, so where is she going to get rent money if she has none? You are engaging in magical thinking. [/quote]

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