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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am on team OP.

If OP were a woman and said never again all the women here would be on her side.

The issue is women take it personal when men don't want to marry them for whatever reasons. And for whatever reasons they somehow think that being married will make the man more faithful or more committed.

Plenty of women on this forum say never again to remarriage and other women cheer them on.

OP stick to your hard line. If you marry her you will resent her and end up divorced again. Don't do it.

Break up and move on.

There are other men she can meet for marriage.[/quote]

+1 to all of this. I am surprised at the vitriol from a few people. Calling OP a loser?

Also, OP still has kids in middle and high school. I hear so many people on here saying it is unfair to your kids to remarry. I’m (mostly) happily married to my first husband and father of my kids but I definitely would not get remarried if we divorced with kids still at home. [/quote]

I don't think people are criticizing OP's choice to never remarry. I am not divorced but I have thought about if I were divorced or widowed, I don't think I'd want to remarry, especially because I'm done having kids. So I can appreciate where OP is coming from on that.

The issue is that everyone gets to decide for themselves, and if someone else wants to get remarried, I don't have a problem with that. OP is trying to make the argument that it is dumb or unacceptable for his GF to want to get remarried. It's not. It's not what I would want (especially with OP, who seems inconsiderate and difficult) but if it's what she wants, good for her. If she and OP can't see eye to eye on this, they should probably break up.

But OP seems to want me to say "no, she's stupid, you guys should stay together and she should just stop feeling like she wants to get remarried." That makes no sense. She has free will. She can want whatever she wants and it's not up to me (or OP) to decide whether that's good or bad. You only have control over yourself.[/quote]

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