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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes it can work. He may have learned a ton and grew. My uncle married my aunt after a 10 year relationship and kids were 15 and 14. They have been married for 35 years. He was in his 40s and my aunt in her late 20's. My uncle has been an amazing presence in my life. I think the age gap works best because most men want to get it right. Be open and don't let other women's stories dissuade you. [/quote]
What evidence do you have that "most "men want to get it right? You've offered up one marriage in your circle that you're not even close enough to really know about. No sane uncle or aunt is sharing the ins and outs of their marriage with their niece. Your aunt could be secretly regretting it and thinking she would not make the same choice if she got a redo, but she would never unfairly burden you by confiding that in you if she's a sensible person. 
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It's true.  It's a lot easier to unburden oneself on an anonymous message board than to a niece.  I would never unload on a niece! [/quote]

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