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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dont understand being strung along.   If your goal is to be married after a year or two of dating, then move on when that doesn’t happen.  What am I missing?   Being strung along makes it sound like women are passive and have no control of their own destiny.  Don’t blame the man for your inability to move own.   [/quote]

I’m a pretty pragmatic person, and I knew that I wanted to be a mother from an early age.  So I had this conversation twice in my twenties.

But you have to realize that this is a weird conversation to have.  On one hand, I am completely head over heels in love with you and want to wake up with you every morning and be with you until the day that I die.  On the other hand, I’m fine walking away tomorrow and never seeing you again if you don’t feel the same way.

I mean, it’s hard to initiate a break-up and stick to it when you are really in love with the other person and want to be with them.  
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Not when you care more about having kids than who you have them with.[/quote]

Like I said, I only did it one time.  The second time I had this conversation, I got married.  But it’s really hard to break up with someone even [b]when you care more about being able to have your own family one day than you do about being in that particular relationship[/b]. 
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More women need to own this and communicate it honestly to their donor, ah, significant other.[/quote]

Whatever you need to say to yourself to feel justified in stringing a woman along through all of her childbearing years.

A lot of people want to have children.  It’s pretty selfish to take that away from someone you love because it makes you feel like a “sperm doner.”  [/quote]

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