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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The PP who said women like this view people as problems that need to be solved is right, and that expectation that you will "let" them fix you is incredibly burdensome. It's also really insulting, especially if you were not under the impression that there was anything particularly wrong with you or your life.

A few years ago I saw a photo of a woman online wearing a t-shirt that said "Not looking for advice, thanks." I wouldn't wear that t-shirt but seeing the phrase spelled out like that really struck me. There are a lot of women who just walk around dispensing advice constantly and the idea that no one asked and it's unwanted seems not to have crossed their minds.

I don't make friends so I can get tips on how to live my life. I make friends for companionships and connection. When you are constantly evaluating your friends, judging them as deficient, and trying to advise them on how to improve, that behavior gets in the way of companionship and connection.

I have to assume a lot of these women had overbearing mothers who were very judgmental and critical and thus these women never learned how to just connect.[/quote]

And I have to assume thst you are a fool who had a foolish mother who jumped to ridiculous conclusions about people's parents. So you never learned how to avoid making baseless conclusions about mothers with horrible adult children.[/quote]

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