Reply to Does my husband have ADHD or is this something else??

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Does my husband have ADHD or is this something else??"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah … He needs to be seen by a dr. 
You both are overwhelmed w so many kids.

He appears checked out from you & those kids.. Guessing bc he’s been able to coast & do so for so long.

Ugh. [/quote]

OP here. I know I am super burnt out - I've been on baby nighttime duty since I gave birth. He sleeps with our middle child in their bedroom but kiddo oftentimes comes into the room for me, and then the baby wakes up, too 🫣

Not saying his job is easy, it certainly isn't physical at all. I used to work outside of the home before having kids and yeah, I get some days suck, mentally you're exhausted. He has time to listen to podcasts during each work day, so it leaves me wondering..

I appreciate your reply.[/quote]

Honestly he sounds like a typical man from the 50s. Did he grow up with a SAHM?  You haven’t worked in what, 5 years?  And you had a THIRD kid? Sorry, he didn’t want kids, just did them to make you happy or have a nice Christmas card. He wants sex and dinner, that’s your job in his mind

No idea why you don’t figure this out after kid one.

If he makes a lot of money, get kids a nanny.

If not, go back to work and hire out; he is never changing. [/quote]

OP here. Both of his parents worked and started their own business - they have two businesses now and both are very successful, hence their wealth.

We have talked about getting an au pair to help me with the kids but .. that comes with some considerations.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics