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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I agree that this stuff isn’t great, but I don’t know that your husband is so horrible.  
The guy is the sole breadwinner, folds laundry (albeit at the wrong time), does all of the grocery shopping, and doesn’t seem to be bothered that the house is a little chaotic even though you are a SAHM with at least one of your three kids in school all day.  
I’m not saying he’s perfect or should be given a pass on everything, but he doesn’t sound like a complete ogre.

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DP.  Disagree.  His behavior sounds calculated to me.  Calculated to avoid what he doesn't want to do.

Early in OP's post, it did sound like he was just distractible, but as it went on, it's clear this guy is a grade-A selfish jerk.  There is no need for fancier labels.

OP, if this guy is this cold-hearted and has a rich family, you need to get your ducks in a row before you make a move.  Put any assets you rightfully can, like that inheritance, in separate accounts.  Consult with a lawyer.  Gather all of your support system people; you will need them. Do you have relatives or friends who can help with some child care, for instance, while you meet with a lawyer or a therapist?[/quote]

OP here. Yes, my family would be the ones to support me and the kids, both financially and emotionally.

The problem is that he has everyone fooled but me. So I think even my family in the beginning would be in denial but.. 🤷‍♀️[/quote]

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