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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah … He needs to be seen by a dr. You both are overwhelmed w so many kids. He appears checked out from you & those kids.. Guessing bc he’s been able to coast & do so for so long. Ugh. [/quote] OP here. I know I am super burnt out - I've been on baby nighttime duty since I gave birth. He sleeps with our middle child in their bedroom but kiddo oftentimes comes into the room for me, and then the baby wakes up, too 🫣 Not saying his job is easy, it certainly isn't physical at all. I used to work outside of the home before having kids and yeah, I get some days suck, mentally you're exhausted. He has time to listen to podcasts during each work day, so it leaves me wondering.. I appreciate your reply.[/quote] Honestly he sounds like a typical man from the 50s. Did he grow up with a SAHM? You haven’t worked in what, 5 years? And you had a THIRD kid? Sorry, he didn’t want kids, just did them to make you happy or have a nice Christmas card. He wants sex and dinner, that’s your job in his mind No idea why you don’t figure this out after kid one. If he makes a lot of money, get kids a nanny. If not, go back to work and hire out; he is never changing. [/quote]
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