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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"It’s not that straightforward and I have no doubt that in a marriage this long the commingling of assets would easily unwind this argument." In that case, the general rule that she'll get an inheritance that would be considered non marital property should be disregarded. If he comingled, which benefits her, than she needs to reciprocate by including the reality that her inheritance would have benefitted both of them in retirement, had they remained married. [/quote] Uh no. You need to stop giving bitter divorced man advice, because it’s incorrect.[/quote] OP’s husband chose to marry a 30-something woman and have a child with her in his 50s. That choice came with life-altering consequences to provide for his child and split assets with his wife. Bitter, divorced men who knock up younger women as they are nearing retirement are so dumb. Now he gets to lie in the bed he made. [/quote] You need to stop being greedy. She is not entitled to his inheritance, nor is he to hers. She gets 50-50 of anything earned in the marriage, as does he. They each get what they came in with. Child support is calculated by formula. She is choosing to divorce, not him.[/quote] It doesn't matter who files for divorce for financial distribution. What are you arguing about? It's 50/50 for everything marital by the law. OP shouldn't bend to her STBX demands to give up her half just because he's older. If he's ok with mother of his child being de-facto homeless after waiving her 50%, and needing to take care of a relative to have roof over her head, he clearly doesn't have her best interests in mind. [/quote]
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