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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello, i’ve gone through all the things you all have said to me. I’ve tried doing all of them, but things have only gotten worse. DD has tried making new friends, but her fake ones always look at her, laugh at her, and during class literally bully her, shove her out of the way, and tell her to “shut up.” Something that really breaks me is my DD has started doing self-harm (scratching herself until she bleeds) and is really stressed about her relationships along with grades as she’s been getting 60-70 on her tests recently. She has no motivation, and stays in her room all day no matter how hard we try making things fun or getting her out of her room. Is it time to email the counselor? Would that make things worse or better?[/quote]

I'm not going to bother reading through the pages I haven't read yet to see if OP you ever went to the school counselor and your DD's teachers and what they said.  These excuses on most recent page about going to the counselor making things worse, yes, that pretty much proves you're either somehow enjoying this crisis and have no interest in solving it, or you're a troll.  It's absurd to not talk to school staff, and unless you yourself are a complete coward and somehow you're the one afraid to talk to them, again, this all points to troll posts.

I guess you're happy though, you got a good 9 pages of people taking you seriously. Well, correction, you're obviously not actually happy... if you were, you wouldn't be reduced to entertaining yourself with fake posts on DCUM to see how long you can string people along.  That's actually the most pathetic part of all of this.[/quote]

You obviously don’t know how this stuff works. OP said that going to a counselor would make things worse, because then the “friends” would be mad at OPs daughter and yes, that would be bad. [/quote]

I work in schools. Explain to me exactly how OP going to the counselor, and also her DD's teachers to share what her concerns are and ask for advice, then translate into "trouble" for DD?  Explain to me how the friends or exfriends or whatever they are now find out?  You are very sure you know what you're talking about, so please educate me how a confidential conversation between OP and the counselor and a few of DD's teachers gets shared to or reported ot anyone in the friend group?  Or any other way it "causes trouble for DD with her friends"?[/quote]

It does not stay confidential. Kids find out and increase bullying. This is obvious

So sorry someone is in this situation [/quote]

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