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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I think the problem is that the most important relationship to OP is with his girlfriend.  Not his kids, not his grandkids.  And he sees nothing wrong with this.  He's simply annoyed his kids/grandkids aren't "warm" with the girlfriend, and they don't seem to accept that of course dad's new bedpartner is the priority.[/quote]

Obviously. I’m pointing out that the obvious missing piece to OP solving this is his own lack of effort. This is why I compared to him to my dad. It’s not that my dad doesn’t want a relationship with me. He just doesn’t consider it his job to make it happen. He’s collected wives and children over the years and is confused and a little annoyed that everyone isn’t excited about it.

It isn’t complicated, it’s a lack of maturity and accountability sprinkled with a healthy dose of misogyny. In the mind of men like this, women and children should just adjust accordingly. Which we did, until we didn’t. Sounds like OP’s kids got there too. [/quote]

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