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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My beautiful daughter, now 25 and in a relationship with a great guy was single all through college.  She was in a co-ed dorm freshman year where one kid slept with half the girls in the hall and they all fought over him.  Other guys would hit on the girls in the hall and they all rejected him for not being cool enough and he transferred.  DD would meet a guy out at a bar or party that she hit it off with with girls would run up to her and tell her he was off limits because he slept with another girl last week and she would be devastated. My daughter walked away and he went home with the girl who told her he was off limits. It was all so competitive and gross she just gave up:  She was in a top sorority and most of her friends were also single.  Hook up culture is real.  The guys don’t want to or have to settle until they are Jrs or seniors if at all.  [/quote] It's not really competitive - if a girl ignores the top 5% of guys and is instead more realistic with the guys she shows interest to (e.g. the normal guy who ended up transferring, or the many many normal guys who she doesn't even remember because of how normal they were) then the possibility of a long term relationship becomes more realistic.

It's like someone only applying to Goldman Sachs and complaining about how cutthroat the job market is when they get rejected.[/quote]

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