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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the kids are over 18, they deserve to know the truth.[/quote]

Except OP doesn't know the truth.   All she knows is they had been unhappily married for awhile and it wasn't all just her ex.   So he left and they are getting divorced.  After 8 months of separation, he has a new gf.  [/quote]

Agree. Whatever OP may suspect or fear, the above is all she [i]knows[/i], and it means she should accept that the marriage is over, not diss DH to the kids, and not contact the new GF. (If the new GF has any sense, she will say "you need to discuss this with your spouse, not with me.").

And go to therapy! OP needs to do two things: one, think about what role she herself may have played in creating a situation in which her spouse was so unhappy but in which his decision to leave was a "bombshell" (which suggests she was not really very self aware or aware of his emotions), and two, think about how to move on in healthy ways, motivated by the desire to be happy and whole even if without him, not by a desire for vengeance.[/quote]

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