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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am so sorry, OP. You do not deserve this train wreck of an ex husband.

You should first get insurance. Why doesn’t your work have it? Call his insurance company. Cobra is expensive. Have them help you figure out options.

He should go and live with his parents for a while and focus on finding a job. He may need to break his lease. That is his issue. You can’t worry about all these issues. You need him to be stable, he sounds like he needs more help than you can give. I understand this will be hard for the kids. He should be collecting unemployment. Does he have any job prospects? He should be attending  AA meetings regularly to be around the kids.

Other than that, yes, stop contributing to the 529s for now. And will you be okay without child support for a short time? He will likely get a new job. This is going to be fine. Do t upend your life for his constant drama.[/quote]

Her kids medical insurance  and expenses are not just OP’s. ExH  should also contribute towards it. If he’s on unemployment he should be getting around $1700/month and kids support will be decided automatically from that amount. Contact DC unemployment benefits department and ask how you can get a deduction from his unemployment  [/quote]

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