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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. I posted on one of your other threads and I'll say the same thing here. You need to stop bailing him out. I know you are telling yourself you are doing it for your kids, but I suspect you are also doing it for yourself. You can feel like the bigger person, the benevolent person who helps him keep his life on track even after what he did to you.[b] You also get the benefit of not having to deal with the fact that you fell in love with and had children with an alcoholic cheater.[/b] You did, and now you need to let him go. He will sink or he will swim, but it's no longer your problem. [/quote] Yeah, I think OP desperately wants to believe that her ex may have been a sh!t husband, but that he's still a good dad. But he's not, not right now. Maybe one day, he can be, but that's TBD years from now.[/quote]
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