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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a preposterous thread title. It’s like saying the sun comes up in the east.

OP, you were talking divorce and he moved out. It happens. The idea that everyone actively co-parents or has a collaborative divorce is a myth. [/quote]

Thanks, this is a good point. The insane thing is that in DH’s email telling me I would be served there’s a whole next paragraph saying that this will be a “collaborative process” and he expects that we will “coparent cooperatively.”

I mean sure, I’ll do 100% of what I can to make it work for my kid, but he isn’t exactly starting things off on the right foot. Cute that his attorney drafted that email for him, though. Wonder how much that paragraph cost.[/quote]

Yeah that email is just to make him look good. Did you respond to it?

While it is true that you can still do a collaborative process even with the papers filed, it is laughable that he would try to claim that high ground, but it’s a tactic.

If you have not responded yet, just reply saying “received” and nothing else. Wait for your lawyer to coach you on a longer response.

Be extremely extremely careful to sound TOTALLY reasonable and factual in writing from here on out. [/quote]

I actually sent a separate email only replying to one logistical question he raised in the email about a time that something was happening. I did not reply to the original email because until I have an attorney I didn’t want to implicitly agree to anything.[/quote]

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