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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The minute you decided to separate you should have gotten a free attorney consult. Get your finances and paperwork in order. Set yourself up to protect your kid. As far as your kid being home next week, be a parent, be an adult and protect them from your breakdowns and “fainting”. Is it possible you separated as a manipulation tactic and your DH called your bluff? Why did you move and buy a house if the relationship was so fragile? You were not blindsided Op but want to play the victim instead of taking care your DC in ways that protect them from the fall out. [/quote]

To be clear, we weren’t separated legally or otherwise, but rather giving each other space. I shouldn’t have used the word separation in my initial post- I’m in my phone and can’t scroll back to see how I worded it but I probably made it confusing because I have a lot going on.

He was staying at our other house and coming and going regularly to the extent that he was leaving his dirty clothes in our shared hamper.[/quote]

I am sorry Op, but this is a separation. Why you continued to do his laundry is your own issue, but “giving space” and living apart, even if still intimate, is a separation. Why would you want to be married to someone who verbally berates you and your kid? Being a crappy parent is a deal breaker for me and should be for you, too. If you need help to get out of the situation, please go online or call for help. If your DH has a mental condition that does not mean you have to tolerate bad behavior. Keep your kid safe. Be thankful for the filing. Please call 1.800.799.7233 if you need help from DV.[/quote]

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