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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Back to the topic of the thread, when I was pregnant DH suggested we take shifts taking care of the baby. Except his shift would be in the early morning hours and he would go to the gym during his shift since the baby would be sleeping 🤔[/quote]

What was his response when you communicated to him this arrangement was not acceptable? [/quote]

He got really defensive. Super fun time.[/quote]

Not fun. Dysfunctional. Bad for children.

You both resolved the defensiveness through communication. Right? Are you not able to resolve issues with your spouse using communication? [/quote]

Why do you ask? Is it distressing to you that my DH is a flawed human being and therefore want to soothe that distress by finding a way to blame me?[/quote]

I ask because you have a child who deserves parents who are able to resolve issues through communication.

[quote]finding a way to blame me?[/quote]

This isn't about you. It's about your child.

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Actually this thread is entitled "Lazy, careless DH stories" not "how women are to blame for men being lazy and careless and how women are thereby hurting their children"[/quote]

Blame the “lazy careless DH” before you blame his mother, and way before you blame his wife, for his laziness and carelessness.[/quote]

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