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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So will her having sex with him make his anger outbursts cease and him hang out with the family more?

Or will him ceasing his anger outbursts and finally being present in the household, lead to more sex?

Hmm hmm hmm [/quote]

If you really care about your marriage it’s incredibly stupid to deny sex to the husband because he didn’t do the dishes. It’s a slippery slope, next there will be no sex because you got into any kind of silly argument and it turns into an escalating power struggle about who can hurt the other one more. If that’s what you’re doing now you’re on a toxic spiral that will undoubtedly lead to divorce. You’re also giving him a good reason to cheat on you, it’s likely to happen and will also speed up the timeline to divorce since it’s a bigger deal and he might find someone he wants to start a new life with.

At this point you might sit down to figure out a friendly divorce while you still can.[/quote]
If you really care about your marriage it's incredibly stupid to not listen to your wife's pleas to spend more time with the family and contribute more to the housechores.  It's a slippery slope to just being disengaged completely and then expecting sex when you want it, then the wife not being interested.  It's likely to speed up the timeline for divorce.

See how that goes?

Marriage is about compromise. Doesn't seem like OP is doing any if the wife is complaining that he gets angry when she brings up this topic.[/quote]

You can outsource the household chores. Are you ok with your husband outsourcing the sex he’s not getting at home? It’s not the same thing.[/quote]

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