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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a 40sF who dates men from 25-55.

She needs to fire her dating coach. Do some men want sex on the first date? Yes. Are there men who don’t? Also yes. At no point should she ever sleep with a man just to try to keep him.

She needs to get clear on what she wants and what she will and won’t do. For example, I’m very clear and upfront that I am dating for marriage. Sometimes I do sleep with men on a first date if I’m very attracted to them, knowing full well it’s just going to be a good time for us both with zero expectations of a second date. Sometimes I’ll go on 10 dates with a man I’m not attracted to but he has marriage potential, and I won’t sleep with him because the chemistry just doesn’t grow. And everything in between (such as currently sleeping with a man where the sex is ok, good not great, but he loves to spoil me with gifts and trips so it’s fine for now).

She needs to get comfortable with doing whatever SHE wants, not trying to bend to what men want. [/quote]

As a 45 years old woman tell me about your dating experience dating a man who is 25 ie 20 years younger. Besides sex which we all is obviously amazing, what else is exciting about dating a 25 years old man? [/quote]

They just have a different perspective on life. Older men are often jaded, most have been through a divorce or two, and are just bitter at the world. Younger guys are still full of life, they have interests beyond their 401k.

One younger man I dated was a personal trainer and we'd workout together. It was FUN. We'd go to the track and race each other, or he'd teach me MMA. Most older men can't do that.

They also appreciate what I can provide for them. I take them to restaurants or on trips they couldn't afford themselves.

Often it feels like you're a teenager again. They want to go do fun things together, like hookup in the car in a mall parking lot, go to an arcade and compete against each other, even talk on the phone late at night.[/quote]

Did your ex husband neglect you? You sound like you have been neglected for a very long time. [/quote]

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