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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is a troll post. But if not, as a childless woman I apologize for the clueless childless individual who wrote it. I cringe sometimes at the things that some fellow childless people say. It's embarrassing. Some of us without kids have common sense and "get it"-I promise! I never in a million years would view maternity leave as a relaxing vacation. [/quote] The only clueless person is you, who apparently doesn't understand that if the benefit is available to everyone then it makes zero material difference whether it is used for maternity, paternity, or drinking margaritas on a beach. If a coworker took maternity leave and the rest of the office adapted and got everything done they needed to, and it later was revealed that they were faking it and never pregnant to begin with, does the work everyone else did undo itself? Do the deadlines retroactively miss themselves? Of course not. There is absolutely no difference. To make a more extreme example, what if the person was actually pregnant, took their time off, everything got done at work just fine, and their baby dies of SIDs the day they go back to work. Would you be mad at them because they took maternity leave but they don't have a baby? Again, what exactly is the material difference? There is none. Literally the only reason to oppose giving the same leave to everyone is childish whining - "but it's not FAIR!" And even that is plain wrong because it's actually the most fair to provide the same time off to everyone regardless of the reasons. If anything it's not fair that parents get extra time off simply because they chose to have kids. [/quote]
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