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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, first off I’m so sorry.

Here is my suggestion..

Let DD know you miraculously found her swimsuit and that it must have slipped behind some furniture when you were folding clothes.

Do not mention it to DS at all.
Don’t make eye contact when you announce that you found it, don’t let on at all that this is a thing. Just happy news that you found it. That’s all. The end.

DS will know that this isn’t the whole story but he won’t acknowledge it or confess because the truth is beyond embarrassing. And honestly you don’t want to know and don’t need to know the entire story.

The good news (if there is any in this) is that it likely does NOT have anything to do sexually with your DD.
The two possible explanations are that he grabbed the closets garment in a hamper or off a drying rack to use as a “helper” to
Pleasure himself and it just happened to be that expensive thing and he didn’t want to confess to that.
And second possibility is that he is trying on the swimsuit for himself and is feeding a body dysmorphic fantasy utilizing this piece of clothing.

Either way—he isn’t likely to want to share that with you and it’s nothing to “confront” so just celebrate that you found the lost item and move on.

If he wants to confess at some point, he will. But I wouldn’t make this a hill to die on. It’s too volatile and unnecessarily embarrassing for everyone.

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And when it happens again then what? And what about the part about him [b]masturbating into his sisters clothing.[/b] This isn’t ok. [/quote]
Where was this part in the OPs post?[/quote]
It wasn't. Everyone here made that part up  and it just never stopped. No one can actually  read today, or yesterday, or the day before![/quote]

NP. I thought OP’s post was strange because the significant detail was lube and not that the swimsuit had semen on it. Honestly it made me think one of our usual fiction writers had visited this thread. [/quote]
Maybe she was too shocked and disgusted to look for her son's cum stains, just a thought. [/quote]

Or maybe, she also didn’t mention a McDonald’s hamburger was wrapped up in there.  This is what is called unsubstantiated speculation.  She still didn’t say the kid jacked off with the swimsuit (which doesn’t even make sense).  Only the perverted minds of DCUM insist this must be true.[/quote]
 :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:  :roll: 
Classic blame the victim. Blame the person who notices for noticing not the pervert stealing his sister's underthings, watching her get in trouble for it being lost and not saying anything. Ok. This is how kids get molested repeatedly and nobody helps them. People like you have 500 alternative explanations for sketchy behavior. [/quote]

Calling a swimsuit an “under thing” doesn’t help establish you’re attached to reality at all.  [/quote]

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