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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP has already said that she is getting rid of the suit. That line of analysis can be closed. In this case, I think a white lie to the daughter is fine. The swimsuit was behind/under something and got some oil on it and needed to be thrown. The son needs a talking to. You can’t just ignore this with a “you and I both know” attitude. He needs to know that this is way beyond unacceptable. It is also shocking that he didn’t cover his tracks better. On the incest angle, I don’t know. It might be a problem, but I’m not sure I’d jump that far without any additional evidence. I’m a guy, and at 14/15 the hormones are out of control and something like an intimate piece of clothing can be a trigger, regardless of who’s it is. The son took it way too far, but it doesn’t automatically suggest to me that there is another level of danger in the household.[/quote] Why would you err on the side that the brother isn't a pervert? [/quote]
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