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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree that this makes the suit unsanitary or unwearable. Just wash it. Twice if you want to.
And let your DD wear it. 
Do not tell her where you found it. Lie if you need to. DS is definitely not going to contradict whatever story you come up with and he is certainly not going to tell her so she doesn’t need to know. [/quote]

I could never let my daughter wear a swimsuit that her son did that on. More power to you.[/quote]

What on earth?  Wash it first of course.  Or make DS wash it, and then wash it again.  But FFS, it's just a bodily emission.  Presumably you had some inside you in order to make said children...should you be thrown away?  No.  Just wash it.

I think the idea that DS should have to buy a new one for his sister is very reasonable but I think OP is making a mountain out of a molehill.  Assuming it's not stretched out or something, I'd wash it and return it to her

I'd say to DD that I found the bathing suit when I cleaned DS's room and it just have mistakenly gotten mixed in with his clothes.  And then I would privately talk with DS and say I know he took his sister's swimsuit and that it was wrong of him to keep it while she was looking for it for so long.  And I'd tell him that private time with himself is natural and they don't need to discuss it further but taking his sister's things is not okay.  [/quote]
1. The semen from my husband was consensual 
2. Your advice is training the son that a woman will come flying in and cover up his sexual misconduct. It is toxic and dangerous. No wonder sexual assault is so common[/quote]

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