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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here. Is third base OK?

I wasn’t a wait until marriage type, but as it happened, the first girl I went all the way with was the one I married.

Still good after more than a decade.[/quote]

No sex at all. We haven’t even seen each other naked. He doesn’t want any kind of sex. Only kissing. Not even touching. [/quote]

This makes no sense.

And the reason is not religious or respect- based, but because he previously was a sex addict and/or porn addict and wants to avoid going on a bender again.

Yikes and yikes and yikes. [/quote]

Bro, this isn't "yikes". It's not for you, and it doesn't sound like it's for OP either, but it's not "yikes" to have limits and clearly express them.

Lotta rape culture evident on this thread.[/quote]

WTF? It’s “rapey” to want to have an intimate, sexual relationship with your partner? You are off.[/quote]

To want it? No. To demand it from someone who has made it clear they aren't willing to offer it to you? YES.

You can want what you want. If your partner doesn't want it, the solution isn't to shame and blame them until they do. [/quote]

Agreed. It's better they split up.[/quote]

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