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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder why women stay with men who don’t do anything around the house or are absent fathers/partners. Who are alcoholics. Who are controlling with money. Who golf every weekend. Who are MAGA. Who are slovenly. 
I guess we’re all different. [/quote]

In the end, women are socialized to accept endless bad behavior from men.  Cheating is just one of those behaviors.  We have to raise our sons better, but how?[/quote]
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All these women who stay after their husbands cheat on them are just teaching their kids the same thing. NBD, go f*** around on your spouse. If you’re a man, it’s expected, and she’ll stay. If you’re a woman, you better put up with it, lest *gasp* a divorce![/quote]

Oh come on- their kids have zero idea—particularly the ones with a happy household and nothing amiss, no fighting…plenty of men are in happy marriages and still banging their wives.  Nobody knows. And if the spouse finds out they sure aren’t running to tell their kids in order to protect them.

Some of you watch way too much TV. Most affairs are never discovered. [/quote]
Most affairs are not discovered, you’re right. But we’re talking about affairs that the wife knew about and chose to stay. People and children definitely find out about these. You are really delusional if you think kids don’t pick up on this kind of thing. [/quote] 
Yes, for example Melania Trump and Hilary Clinton.[/quote]
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Staying is condoning. [/quote]

It's not condoning. It's called securing your future. When you date a rich and powerful man, sampling other women comes with the territory. He can have any supermodel he wants and chose you. That makes a difference. You can sit there and make moral complaints or just enjoy the good parts about the man you love and enjoy a solid future where your kids and retirement are taken care of.  [/quote]

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