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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old is the baby?  This seems unreasonable unless it’s really extreme.  Like if the baby is six months old and you’re showing once a week. He might have a point.  If the baby is less than a month, he should not be doing anything.[/quote]

A little over 1 month. I think I’ve showered maybe 4 times since giving birth. I will wear the same clothes until I shower again. [/quote]
Oh gosh, that sounds like depression. [/quote]

Not depression. I have a newborn and had a c-section and have a disc herniation exacerbated by pregnancy and labor.

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I had a c section but not the disc herniation. I could not wait to shower. I showered when the baby took a nap when I was home alone.

Does your husband take care of the baby at all?  That's when you can shower.

I think you might you feel better if you shower.  I sure did.  If you are only showering once a week, I think he has a point.  At least change your clothes.  I think you do have some PP.[/quote]

When’s he’s home and able to. He is very busy with work, building a business, and helping out his elderly mother who has been going through some health issues.

95% of the baby care is on me. I shower when I know he is home and I have ample time. [/quote]

What's your childcare plan? Are you going back to work? If so, then have the nanny start early. Ours started when our twins were four weeks old because that's when my husband went back to work. She worked part-time and it was great because it made the transition a lot easier when I went back to work because we had already been a team for many weeks. If you're not going back to work then hire some part-time care. You're obviously wealthy enough to not need to work, so you must be wealthy enough to hire someone. [/quote]

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