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[quote=Anonymous]I gave up a lucrative career for raising a family but we had no family here and with DH's travel and work hours, it just wasn't possible to have it all.

Do I regret it? I do but only because it has social repercussions. SAHP get no respect in this society and are often misunderstood and ostracized because their mere existence make people feel defensive of their choices.

Would I do it again? In a heartbeat. Did I see any pros and cons? Yes but pros outweigh the cons for me.

Would I recommend it to other parents? No. I wouldn't unless you completely trust your spouse, their loyalty, their earning ability and their job stability. Marriages are a joke now for most people and you don't want to be divorced in 10 years with no work history. It worked out for me but I would recommend keeping resume alive in some manner.

If you aren't overly attached to your work identity you can pull it off, your family would benefit immensely. Children grow up fast and then you regret missing out on their childhood and your youth more than missing out on your days at work.[/quote]

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