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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Back to the original post, I am also a SAHM and my children (older teenagers) have never spoken to me this way. If I were in your shoes, I would calmly address my daughter and let her know that her father and I made the choice together that I would be a SAHM mom. We made this decision based on what we felt was best for our family and we are both happy with the decision we made. As such, all money your father makes is our money. I would also let her know that I will be supportive of whatever decision (SAHM or WOHM) she chooses to make when she is older if she has children. I would be calm but firm, she might not choose to make the same decision when she is older, but she has to respect that it is the decision that her father and I made and we are happy with it. [/quote] Mine never say anything but I encourage they to pick a high enough paying job to support their wives in if they want to stay home or not as it should be their choice. Child care is crazy expensive. We will help as much as we can but it’s a personal decision. [/quote] Not themselves? You told them that they are boys so they have to work, but it’s their wife’s choice if they do? Yikes[/quote] Yes, they are boys and will work. [/quote]
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