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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like PP I also come from a fairly functional family and ended up with a DH who love bombed. What I think of all this so-called dysfunction now, in my 50s, is that I completely avoid anyone claiming to be a "victim". I've learned that the perpetual victims are people with millions of issues creating their own problems. They'll never work through anything and will simply suck you dry with their endless complaining. Their families have red flags all over that they hide until you're married and with kids. I've also found out that it's not my job to fix other people. I'm not their therapist or psychologist. I think dysfunctional people love attaching themselves to functional people and then running them to the ground. The only way not to end up being ran to the ground is to not engage and/or disappear, which is why the more-or-less functional people avoid the dysfunctional like a plague. [/quote] You are me but I'm in my 40s. [/quote]
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