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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the girlfriend is from there why doesn't she offer one of her relative's houses to a group of frat boys she's never met for the summer. [/quote]

This! +♾️

she sounds like a user and abuser. And like she’s only going to be with him temporarily until she finds a bigger fool[/quote]

BIL’s girlfriend is a single mom in her 40s or 50s currently dating the fool BIL who inherited millions of dollars and has no heirs. That’s a whale to someone her age.[/quote]

I think it would be reasonable for BIL to ask if he could stay at the beach house for a week or two and bring his girlfriend and her son. It is not reasonable to ask for a 20yo who is not his son to use the beach house for the entire summer.

I personally would let my child or nephew stay with friends. I would not let the son of my BIL’s girlfriend. [/quote]

No it’s not. Unless it’s a rental, who in their right mind lets someone they don’t know and their frat brothers stay even for a night in their house.

I’m a beach house owner - albeit one that costs far less to maintain and far less in insurance (probably far less of a flood risk). In most instances I don’t even let my adult kids stay there with friends unless we’re there. I worked extremely hard to afford it and it is someplace that brings me great joy. I have nice things that we take good care of. And I am not risking ruining that by letting people that I don’t know enough to trust stay there without us being present.

OP, there is nothing for you to do except hold your ground. If you haven’t changed locks or installed cameras you should. If they show up anyway, I’d give BIL ten minutes to get them out before you call the police. [/quote]

I meant it is reasonable for the BIL to ask to stay, not the son of the girlfriend.[/quote]

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