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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you wait, be prepared for fertility struggles. I’m 32 and just had a 2nd tri miscarriage which has been heartbreaking. [/quote]

That likely would have happened in your 20s. Two unplanned kids for me at 34 and 37 from sex one time in years for each. Instant. I was not trying (and was not happy about it). People with fertility issues in their 30s usually would have it in their 20s. I had a friend who did IVF in her 20s. Often it is not age until you are 40 plus. [/quote]

Wrong. Studies consistently show that fertility begins to decline significantly after age 33, with a sharper decline after 35. Women in their 20s are far more likely to conceive naturally and avoid fertility issues compared to those in their 30s or beyond. While it’s true that some people experience fertility problems in their 20s, the majority of infertility cases are age-related and become more prevalent as women get older. Suggesting otherwise is irresponsible and spreads dangerous misinformation.

Your anecdotal experience of conceiving easily in your mid-to-late 30s does not reflect the norm and doesn’t negate the science-backed reality of fertility decline with age. Misleading others into believing that fertility struggles in your 30s are no different than in your 20s is harmful, especially to women trying to make informed decisions about their family planning. Stop spreading false information—it does a disservice to those who rely on accurate data to navigate these sensitive issues.[/quote]

Start reading: the studies you refer to are based on 1700s data. There are so many articles online that 35 fertility cliff is a myth. [/quote]

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