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[quote=Anonymous]Hi, OP. I saw your update.

I'm the forty something poster who has dated divorced dads. I went from dating someone fifty fifty (and he was off on his noncustody days) to dating someone who had 100 percent custody due to a spouse's mental health issues. It is rough, I am not getting as much as I want out of the relationship (it's not his fault - he just can't), and if we broke up, I would definitely seek out someone whose kids have already launched. No way would I have wanted this situation at 36.

I think you just need to be honest with her and tell her exactly what you told us. Maybe even cut and paste and put it in a letter with some more compliments at the same time as you sit down to have the convo.

She's 36. Personally, I think she should look elsewhere because you aren't able to give her what she deserves. Maybe if she's still single at forty, you guys can start dating again when you have more time. But I dont think YOU need to break up with her - you just need to be very honest with her. And acknowledge it's understandable if she wants more.[/quote]

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