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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She will be a source of conflict going forward and forcing him to choose between her and the kids. There are plenty of posts here from adult children of estranged divorced parents who chose to prioritize either the new spouse or the spouse's family.

Think hard, OP, about what you want your life to look like in 10 years.[/quote]

I’m a huge proponent of putting the kids first but that’s not what OP is saying. He (although he won’t admit it) basically wants a FWB situation where he gets exactly what he wants (travel for work, take kids to sports, and also have down time) and she agrees to slot in whenever he has time. Except unlike FWB he also wants her to be monogomous and committed.

He could easily commit more time to her without compromising his parenting. [/quote]

How can he commit more?[/quote]

+1. I asked above - where does she think the extra time will come from?[/quote]

Better question is where does HE think he has the time to sustain a committed monogomous relationship? [/quote]

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