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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, this devolved quickly. We got some really insightful posts up front, but no, it’s not that anyone “hates” this woman. It’s just that she’s stupid, a sheep, and a lemming. Ouch.

Now who’s the mean girl?

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An adult woman having preferences and making judgements is not being a "mean girl." Everyone does this. Most people recognize and accept that people do it to them, too. [/quote]

Agreed if that’s all that was said.But calling someone a sheep or lemming is mean.[/quote]

Are you feeling attacked because you have a Cartier love bracelet on right now? [/quote]

I think the sensitivity stems from buying these items thinking it says something positive about them, and discovering that it may actually convey something negative.

Like I think women will covet a Cartier love bracelet thinking "if I get one of those I will look sophisticated and stylish." And then they get it and read online that many people associate that specific item with being a sheep and having no style. It's upsetting because it has the exact opposite effect they had hoped.

But that how fashion trends work and why the best advice is to never buy a trend unless you would like it even if no one else was wearing it. Because trends can turn and then you're just a fashion victim with a very expensive bracelet that seems generic and basic.[/quote]

Yes. It's a truism for human beings that when someone challenges something we counted on as a sure thing, the response is often amped up emotion. Usually anger.

Not much of life is absolutely reliable. When you think you've won a position, you don't want to have it taken away. [/quote]

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