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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“Mom of boys,” you’re fine.

“BOY MOM,” you are annoying and think your son does literally no wrong.

“He’s all boy,” I will punch you in the tit.[/quote]

I never thought boy mom meant this.  I live with two boys and a husband. [b] I thought boy mom meant getting used to gross toilets, hands down pants, etc. [/b] Now that my older kid is well into puberty I'm really feeling the gender differences.[/quote]

DP. Those are bad behaviors that mothers excuse too. I have two boys and a girl, and they’re equally clean(or else).[/quote]

I also have two boys and a girl, and my girl is the most resistant to bathing.  But my boys love to fart loudly as they leave a room.  And pee splash around the toilet with boys (especially young boys) just comes with the territory; it’s not “bad behavior” you loon.[/quote]

It is bad behavior. Boys should be taught from the earliest age it’s unacceptable to leave pee on/around the toilet; they need to clean it up themselves, immediately. Accepting it and forcing other family members to accept it as normal is “boymom” behavior.[/quote]

Your misogyny is showing.  If you truly believe this then it’s actually “boydad” behavior.  I don’t teach my sons how to pee standing up.  Just like my husband is not the one to teach our daughter how to properly dispose of menstrual products.

But if my elementary school son splatters a bit when he gets up to pee in the middle of the night, I just deal with it when I see it (you know, like a big girl!) rather than accusing him of toxic masculinity or entitled behavior or whatever nonsense you can come up with.[/quote]

You, not your husband, is on the internet defending this gross behavior. And when you are called on it, you cry misogyny? Let’s just say I am not surprised you are raising your boys not take responsibility- you are apparently modeling it for them.
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You’re right. 5-year-old pee splatter equals future rapist. And the world is pro-men and boys, because we allow it.[/quote]

Ah, you cannot acknowledge your poor logical leaps so you make another gigantic one.  Sad.[/quote]

I hope one day you only have grandsons and have to teach them not to pee splatter. Just stand next to them while they go pee and tell them how to end so that nothing splatters.[/quote]

When her adult grandsons don’t visit her when she’s eventually all alone someday, she’ll undoubtedly count their lack of concern for her as further evidence of how awful boys and men are.  She’ll never consider that they don’t visit her because she’s a horrible person who made her disdain for them obvious throughout their lives, just because they’re not girls.[/quote]

I’m hoping my daughters teach their sons to clean up their pee. Do you think grandmas are supposed to clean it up? Sounds like you do.[/quote]

Yea. I definitely think you should have your grandson clean up his pee while he still hasn’t figured out how to hold his penis. Let your disdain for his abilities shine![/quote]

You are the one imputing disdain. From a young age, people should learn that it’s important and responsible to clean your own mess. No negative judgment on the child. Tons of negative judgment on the parent who somehow thinks her precious is exempt from that. [/quote]

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