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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a man, my impression is that there is such an undercurrent of control seeking behavior by many of the posters in this thread.

Just driven women, who can’t organically enjoy casual dating, but are heat-seeking-missile focused on finding the tallest, richest mate, who would then most likely be pushy wives in the marriage.[/quote]

I agree. Notice the detailed discussion about how a man making $90k is OK, but $80k is not, unless he's in his 20's. And a GS-9 is OK but not a GS-8, etc.

It's like they are shopping for pieces of meat. I've never heard men rate women like that.[/quote]

I find that women are far more picky than they often let on.  On the surface, you hear many of the things that are often said on this board.  I just want a man who can communicate, a man who is emotionally intelligent, kindness and all that.  But if you start to probe beneath the surface, you start hearing about how this guy's job is not that impressive, how that guy is a little too short for their liking, etc.  And this is coming from women across the attractiveness spectrum, all of whom appear to be stable and good-hearted.  In other words, there are all kinds of regular women who care a great deal about the superficial things, or at least more than they are willing to admit.

Women are human too.  And most want a man they can be proud of, which is sometimes tied to more superficial things like job status, height and looks.  I'm not judging them for that.  [/quote]

Listen, how can a woman even show her full sexual potential while dating causally? I don't take in different h..s if the guy didn't show me his STD test, and is non-committal, sorry. Men want to hook up with different women: sure, but you get only wrapped PIV for that, bro! 
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Easy one for me. If he's not dating for long term or one on one it's bye. [/quote]

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