Reply to Revealing affair

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Revealing affair "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

[b]This is worse than cheating.[/b] You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated [/quote]

This is ridiculous. You must have come from a very F*ed up family of origin. How very sad for you that you think this way. No one is under any obligation to keep a cheater’s secret. Especially when there is a health concern. A partner deserves to know that their spouse is cheating so they can get STD testing. Or are you dumb enough to believe a cheater and liar when they say they have never cheated before and both are disease free.

[/quote]

OP isn’t worried about STDs or any of that. She just wants someone to share the pain, and to hurt the cheaters. SHE is worried about HER having to carry the secret, which isn’t hers to share or not share, other than her own experience.

Setting out knowing you’re going out to hurt someone else to make yourself feel better IS questionable.

And I’m saying this as someone who has pretty decent proof their partner is cheating ATM.[/quote]

It doesn’t matter why OP did it, it is the right thing to do. And it’s no surprise that you’d say this while you share a bed with a cheater. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics