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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does anyone even ask why someone chose to work or stay home? I mean if you ask the question, then you should be prepared to hear the answer even if it feels judgy and unpleasant. The issue is that I don’t think people are asking the question before someone volunteers the explanation.[/quote] Yes, they do ask. The typical DMV question is where do you work? Where does your spouse work? It is the most common thing in our area. It is how we judge and value eachother in this area, sadly. [/quote] Typical DMV question is do you work out of the home? The answer is no, I say at home. The wrong answer is ... I raise my own children. It might be to judge if you're an a-hole or it might be to find common ground. [/quote]
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