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[quote=Anonymous]A friend from South America asked me once "how do you get your DH to make dinner?" My response was: "he will starve if he doesn't." We both work. We both commute. No way I was going to do it all, esp when he is home before me. I do do "more" of the household labor but that's b/c I like things a certain way. He does other things I don't do (car stuff, scheduling house maintenance, etc.) But in general it is pretty acceptable division of labor. I simply did not give him a choice. After several times of picking up his piles of stuff around the house, leaving them on his dresser or side of the bed with "find a place for this stuff", he is better about cleaning up after himself. But, I'm not above passive-aggressive (i.e., cleaning my plates and not his) if he starts slacking off. And to be clear, I only do this after asking him multiple times to "please put away your XXX." [/quote]
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