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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would hire cleaners - my husband (we are both white) had many period of low or no employment when we were first married and never cleaned even though i was working 60-70 hours a week. So I just hired someone to relieve that area of strain - it was annoying but not worth the fighting about it, now 25 plus years later - he has been a great sahd and partner.  I think its rare to find a DH who will clean w/out alot of constant nagging They are spoiled by their mothers who make the sisters wait on them (as was the case in my family growing up).  [/quote]

Most people don't like to clean. I don't. DH doesn't. Women usually have a lower tolerance for dirt, dust and disorder and will start cleaning before men do. If you hire someone to clean every 2 weeks, that will be enough to keep a clean enough house if everyone helps by doing dishes and laundry, emptying trash, and wiping down counters. [/quote]
+1  How many times have we read on this forum that the DHs claim that they do clean, just not the way the DW likes it.

I can see the dust and dirt but DH (nor the kids) can. I'm not a neat freak by any means, but I can't stand stuff on the floor, and lots of dust means the house is dirty.[/quote]

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