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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I had a college roommate who did this in college and likely throughout her twenties.  She came from a wealthy family, was at the top of our class, and got a high-paying job after graduating.  She was selective; the men she dated were older but not "old" and always attractive (though to me, at the time, all men over 25 seemed ancient). It was a power trip for her, 100%.  We discussed it at length.    [/quote]

but what exactly was the arrangement here? were these wealthy boyfriends that took her 1st class to Paris that [b]she wouldn’t have dated but for the money?[/b] Or were these guys handing her $500 after a “date”? The former is just some variety of relationship; the latter is prostitution. [/quote]

The bold may not be technically prostitution, but in effect, it is to me.

This is why when I had a primarily physical relationship with one particular man, I ensured we split everything, hotel costs, meals, whatever. I didn't want or need anything from him that wasn't sex or companionship. He would have liked to give me gifts and said so, but as the relationship was a frank and direct one already, I said that though I liked that he [i]wanted[/i] to give me things, I'd never accept them. Pity, since he had great taste. But I was getting what I wanted from him so we were on an equal footing.

If that comes off as my sounding superior, whatever. Fine. I think women who are sugar babies but have an education, a decent place to live, an income of their own, are sick. [b]They should have sex with men they actually like and desire, [/b]rather than pimping themselves out for material cr*p and cash because they want designer bags and trips.  [/quote]

You assume they don’t? lol they could be on the side. [/quote]

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