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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So no one is seeing this from OP's point of view? Not OP. But I'm reading that she mommy tracked when the kids were little and required all the work, and H was never around. Now that they're self-sufficient teens, he wants to switch roles and for OP to step up at work. So she gets the short end of the stick in the beginning *and* the end? I'd be resentful too! And before anyone mentions how the H was busting his butt working in the early years, I'm a single mom with sole custody so I've done all the work and all the parenting, and FT work is much less demanding than FT parenting/PT working.

OPs husband wanted it his way then, and now, and she's pissed. I get it![/quote]
How did she get the short end of the stick? He worked 70h weeks and never saw his children just to provide for his family. OP had some sort of easy flexible job with lots of time off to care for the children, and had money rolling in from apparently nowhere? Now he's WFH and able to step up more for the kids.

Covid changed the entire workforce and trajectory of careers, he is now able to take advantage of being home more. OP wasn't happy then, and OP isn't happy now. She can't decide what she wants, but it sure as F isnt her DH. [/quote]

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