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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks- this is exactly what a close friend suggested. I guess the other part that bothers me, is [b]I like being the mom and the one that is taking care of the kids/house etc. This has been part of my job for 15 yrs. He's flipping our entire family dynamic without considering everyone else.[/b] I also think if I get a higher-paying (aka more stress) job while he plays Mr Mom, our marriage is doomed because I'm so turned off. [/quote] Translation - you want him to be the primary earner, because you don't want the responsibility. He would like you to take a turn being the primary earner, after 15+ years. Also, you have antiquated views of men and masculinity. [/quote]
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