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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I think a lot of people are ignoring that he spent the first part of your relationship insisting that you *couldn't* pay for things or it would undermine his manhood, and now has shifted to demanding that you pay for things or you're the wrong kind of woman (golddigger).[/b]

But the overarching thing I'm getting from all of OP's posts is that she doesn't really love this guy, she's just worried about being single and 30+.  That's no way to live, and there's a chance he realizes that the love isn't there and that's why he's being a jerk - lots of guys want you to break up with them because they can't initiate difficult conversations like "I don't think we have an emotional connection capable of sustaining a lifelong relationship."  This guy can't even say "I know I told you when we first started dating that I never wanted you to pay, but it turns out that now that we're committed I'd like a more equal split" so he's not going to break up with his words.[/quote]
Yeah this is what gets me and I do think he was just trying to impress her. [/quote]

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