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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women should just let their man go get release through a prostitute. It's not that big of a deal.[/quote]

Men don’t want prostitutes or “release.” They want connection and desire.

This post sounds like it was written by a woman in any case. [/quote]

Most of the ones around here complaining about sexless marriages seem completely fine with the concept of having sex with their wives, whether or not their wives are turned on or into it. The decent ones say they want consent, but none seem interested in whether their wives enjoy it.

The tip is when they start talking about their wives making "unilateral" decisions to not have sex wiht their husbands as if the husband has any say in whether his wife will have sex with him.[/quote]

You sound like a complete nut case. Marriage is a partnership, off course husband will have a say when THEY will have sex. Same goes for wife. Now if the husband or wife are a-hole or if they have gotten too fat, then it is understandable for their spouse not to have any desire. [/quote]

Husbands don't get to decide whether their wife will have sex. They need to get consent.[/quote]
Marriage is a partnership which means both partners have a say when they have sex. Asking for permission makes it a master/slave relationship not a partnership [/quote]

Having sex with someone without their permission makes it rape.[/quote]

This seems like a completely irrelevant point.  How exactly is rape connected to this discussion?[/quote]

read the thread back—the angry guy said the both partners should get decide if the wife wants to have sex and that by doing it any other way creates a master/slave relationship. consent is key to any sexual encounter. not a debatable thing.[/quote]
I said BOTH partners decide when THEY have sex in a PARTNERSHIP. Its a MUTUAL decision. [b]Unilaterally withholding sex by one partner is abuse.[/b] However if their spouse is an a-hole, abusive or have become very fat then it’s completely not to have any desire. [/quote]

OMG i can't stop laughing[/quote]

Laughing is the easy way out if you don’t have an answer [/quote]

no, i just love the idea that NOT having sex with someone because they're gross is abusive. sorry, i'll try to take you seriously.[/quote]
You are injecting your own thoughts into other people’s posts. I clearly said if a person is abusive, a-hole or very fat then it’s completely understandable for their spouse to not have any desire for them [/quote]

no, you said [b]Unilaterally withholding sex by one partner is abuse.[/b]

It's so funny.[/quote]
Off course it is abuse. How else is that person supposed to fulfill their desires? Jerking off or using toys is vastly different from sex with another person. And no marriage is not just about sex, but it is a very important element of a marriage unless both partners are low libido [/quote]

Gawd. To have a life so simple and free of family, house, work and kid responsibilities that only frequent sex is the end all, be all. Cannot imagine reducing my huge, spinning life, career and family to that. [/quote]

or having such a perfect life that you think not having enough sex is "abuse".[/quote]

This is how we know Op troll is actually single, young and stupid. [/quote]

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