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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Never had a woman asks me out. I would love it though . Where are the places I need to go for this to happen. The bar? The club? At work? Please let me know and I'll.be at these places. Haven't had much luck on OLD. [/quote]

26 years ago, I joined a community theater group (I had done theater in high school and college, but stopped when I got a "real job").  There aren't the many guys in community theater to begin with.  But the guys that are single, straight and join theater are relatively few and far between.  One woman made a move within a few weeks of me joining.  We were exclusively dating within about 2 months, engaged 2.5 years later and are going to celebrate our 22nd anniversay in less than a month.

And you don't have to be an actor or singer to be involved in community theater.  Community theater needs carpenters who can build sets, lighting and sound designers and crew (and we teach new crew members almost every show).  If you can't do any of these, then stage hands that can move furniture on and off stage.  Even just folks who can come on work days to come and move equipment, tools, help hold pieces to build a set and so on.  There's a ton of work to be done for both skilled and unskilled help.  And most importantly, community theater is about 2/3 women, many of whom are single and available.  Something about theater makes many actresses more forward and more likely to ask the rare single, straight guy out.[/quote]

Very awesome and interesting story but yeah more than likely this will always be in the minority[/quote]

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