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Reply to "Would you consider having a revenge affair/ fling if your spouse had an affair and you decided to stay together?"
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[quote=Anonymous]To the PP who says she cheated but she wouldn't tolerate a revenge affair, the thing is, you just never know until it happens to you, and then it depends on a lot of factors. I'm sure I would have said I would never stay after an affair, but when you have a chronic illness and two preschool aged kids, plus there's still love and your husband commits to changing, suddenly the "never" is out the window. It seems odd to preach forgiveness for yourself but not for your spouse. I do agree that a tit for tat mentality is not healthy. But if your very human husband, in his grief and shock, made the very same mistakes that you made, would you really not consider staying? [/quote]
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